Learn to Love – Learning to Love the Right Way

The workshop began with an activity called “How to Spell Your Love.” Through a 15-question quiz featuring real-life situations, students had the opportunity to reflect on their own love language. Is happiness found in having someone patiently listen to them, or in the warmth of thoughtful acts of care? Based on their responses, each student was able to identify the unique love language that lies within them.

Using the corresponding letters A, B, C, D, and E, the five love languages were introduced and explained: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. By learning to recognize how they prefer to give and receive love, students came to understand that everyone communicates affection on a different emotional “frequency.” To truly connect with others, we need to learn how to understand and speak their love language.

Perhaps the most important lesson from the workshop was the value of empathy in reducing unnecessary conflicts and misunderstandings. Using the right “language” of love not only helps nurture meaningful and lasting relationships but also supports the development of emotional intelligence and compassion. When we understand both ourselves and others, love becomes not a burden, but a positive force that helps us grow together.

Greenfield School believes that choosing the right way to express love is the key to building strong and lasting connections. We hope that after this 21st edition, students have gained valuable skills to nurture their relationships with greater understanding and appreciation. The “Có Psy, Đừng Ngại” mini-talk series will continue to accompany students every Thursday lunchtime with many more engaging topics to come. Stay tuned!